Real talk: some doctors will still be awful, and that's not your fault or a reflection of your progress. Success isn't "every doctor treats you perfectly" - it's feeling confident enough to recognize bullshit when you hear it, knowing your rights, having scripts that work, and finding providers who actually help. If you need continued support after 3 months, we can extend month-to-month.

• You walk into appointments prepared with specific questions that are hard to dismiss

• You can recognize when weight is being blamed inappropriately vs. when it might be medically relevant

• You've got a toolkit of responses for common fatphobic scenarios

• You understand your test results and know what to ask for next

• You feel less anxious and more empowered in medical settings

• You've connected with other fat folks who "get it"

We practice. A lot. I'll help you write scripts, role-play scenarios, and even help you bring a support person if that helps. Some of my clients bring written lists of questions or even record appointments (where legal). We work with your communication style, not against it.

Yes! I often help clients navigate conversations with partners who mean well but don't understand medical bias. I've got resources for partners and can even join a session if that would help.

Zero tolerance policy. The community is actively moderated and has clear guidelines. Anyone promoting weight loss, "health at every size but actually lose weight," or diet culture gets removed immediately. This space is sacred.

Life happens. If you need to pause, we'll work something out. I'm not going to add financial stress to someone already dealing with fertility challenges. Let's have an honest conversation about what works.

If after our first month you don't feel more confident and equipped to advocate for yourself, or if you feel like this approach isn't right for you, we can part ways, I want you to feel certain this is helping.